One of the reasons people don't tell anyone they are pregnant till they are 3 months, is so they don't have to tell everyone over and over again that they miscarried. Every time you have to tell a friend that you are not pregnant anymore, it hurts.
But I'm really glad I told my closest friends. Because today was a day I wouldn't want to go through alone!
Who knew Vicki would be with me all day while I was actually losing the baby. I didn't know what was going on, but it was nice to lay in bed all day!
And to get emails from friends that have miscarried as well. I have a great mother-in-law who is always a comfort. My parents are in Jamaica, so they don't even know yet.
Do you think I should tell less people next time?
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We all shared in your joy and excitement and I was happy to be there for you. I think it is never to early for people to start praying for you. Just make sure they are close friends. You know you are the best, and loved by all who know you.
Good chance the next time will be successful. Tell as many as who you are happy to share with, who are your supporters, too. :-)
For those that are close to you, isn't that part of friendship - for sharing everything whether good or bad. That's the way I see it.
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